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Two things I absolutely can’t stand; when someone does something for you like “A favor” but complains about it, after they willingly agreed/accepted, or When you do something for someone like “A favor” and they have the nerve to complain about it, like if it’s an honor to help them out. The worst part is that they complain out loud in front of you, you have got to be the rudest person to complain in front of the person your complaining about. Have respect and keep it in your head or just say no in the first place. I know I’m not the only one who would say to themselves “This is the last time I’m ever asking this person to do anything for me, I wish I wouldn’t have even asked, why did they even say yes If it was going to be that much of a burden. Naw I’m good that will be the last time, I ask you for a favor” its not much of “A favor” if someone is complaining about you. Or “Wow, I’m over here doing you a favor and you wanna complain, are serious right now. Like I didnt have to do this, I could have been doing so many other things, but it’s cool I got you”

I just don’t get it. If your going to do something do it out of the kindness of your heart and keep it that way, and if somebody is willing to do something for you out of the kindness of there heart, just be appreciative.